Difficult Relatives.

Relatives, mean people who connected by blood or marriage.
I am writing this post to show how bad my relatives are and how rude they have treated us.
Frankly speaking, they are thorns in my flesh. I would like to repeat again, thorns.
My dad is the sixth child of my grandparents. He has 3 elder brothers, 2 elder sisters and 1 younger brother.

The main issue of why we have family conflicts is my parents refused to sell my grandmother's house. My parents insisted not to sell it because first of all, it is our grandparents' house. Chinese traditional idioms - 有瓦遮头 (which means a house to live or stay)  . Secondly, the house prices in KL area are so expensive, why would you sell the house away when you have a free house to live? The only reason my father's siblings decided to sell the house is to get money, a very little money. Some of them even threatened me on Facebook.

Let's start with the eldest sibling. My father's eldest brother passed away many years ago and left behind 3 children. His wife remarried and gave birth to 1 child. His wife (eldest ex sis-in-law) is really a troublemaker. Her son is getting married soon. 30-year-old, financially incapable of arranging a wedding. She called my mom and told her that she was cheated by her old friend and now she has no money to fund a wedding for her son. My mom felt sympathy for her and gave her 10K to her son as his wedding budget. My mom even paid 3K as his wedding dinner deposit. Money issue? No, my mom doesn't care about the money she spent on him. (She never spends so much for us too.) This woman is spy between my father's siblings and my mom. She is a real drama queen. Trying to become closer to my mom and brainwash her to sell the house. What a real dick. Flipping here and there for her own's benefit. She definitely will ask my mom "How's he? Is he okay?", indirectly to get the info whether my dad is died or not, and spread my dad's current situation among my dad's siblings. So they would come to snatch everything once my dad is KO.

The second son of my grandparents. Fine, this kind of man really get strike by karma now.

The third son of my grandparents. Chinese traditions, no son; no talk. This man said my dad doesn't pay for grandma's hospital bill, so warn us to shut up and just sign the agreement to sell the house. Well, my dad has cancer and none of them pay for my dad's bills too. Do we ask them to pay for it? No. So, why do you have such rights to shut our mouth just because we don't pay grandma's bills? Add on, they didn't inform us to pay for it too. Cheap people.

The youngest brother, not so much of conflicts because they are staying far away from us and doesn't have such evil attitude as those elder ones.

Now, the sisters. Evil sisters. The eldest sister, nothing much to criticise but she is definitely a witch, That's all I would said. I believe in first impression. Her first impression to me is, WITCH. This is proven.

The elder sister, who is also a witch. Doesn't know how to differentiate what should and shouldn't do. She attacked me on Facebook, even threatened me. I don't understand why a 嫁出去的女，拨出去的水 want to keep 祖簿. 八婆咯. and this bitch always raises issues among my dad and my mom. She doesn't feel shame of destroying other's family. 60 years of living and have no sense to be polite or to avoid certain sensitive issues, what does she deserve? Get scolded lo~

As conclusion, I'm not criticising them by looking at their bad sides. I did consider their good sides, unfortunately none. :) Is this defamation? No, it's my personal and truly experience.

Thank you,